Everyone lives a different life. There is not a common rule that everyone must follow. So forget about those words like βyou need to get married at the age of 20β, βyou will meet the middle-age crisis at the age of 30β, or βyou will be unsuccessful at the age of 40β. Instead, if you still want to make any contributions to the world, it is vital to choose your own areas. It is time to stop and ask yourself: who you wanna be (rather than others want you to be), and start from here.